I have to be real honest and say that I didn't see IC's response as "jumping" on Husband or anything. It's kind of like emails, sometimes they can be taken the wrong way b/c you can't hear the tone or inflection in someone's voice.
Red,
I agree with you that it's easy for things to be taken the wrong way because you can't hear the other person's tone. The problem I'm having is that I KNOW his tone lately. He is avoiding something, avoiding me !
