Morgan, This is bad to compare H's but I am in a pissed off mood. My old friend and I did discuss our H's and I felt mine was worse. Comparing our stories here I think Donna's is the worst. I hope that does not offend her. She is so brave. I think the rest of our H's are kind of classic weak mid life crisis accidental jerks. I do not think they choose to be cruel they just are desparate and the cruelty comes out.
Sorry to gossip.
From here , I have learned that it really is not about the OP, they could be neighbors, exes, coworkers, friends, it does not really matter. It is more common than people let on and I do not know why it is not discussed so that more marriages are affair proofed sooner.
Morgan, we did survive October. That made me happy for like a minute.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
