We are stronger. I told my SIL if she would have told me that he had lunch with her and did that to her 6 months ago I would have freaked out. But now I know what I have to do and I can't let him hurt me anymore. We have to be stronger to survive for us. I went to a great conference yesterday on Women and finances. It was really uplifting and I learned a lot. I am in finances but I really learned. We have to be strong and move ahead for us. It might not be the way we had wished for and thought would happen but whatever happens and we will survive. We have made it this far.