What was wrong with my post? Here is what I understand about the situation:
Sandi shows interest in OM. This gives OM reason to pursue her. He feeds her LOVE Bank (to win her desire). She continues to lead him on.
But with her husband she does NOTHING to show him interest, and based upon the last 10-15 years, he has absolutely no reason to pursue HER. So why does she not spend her efforts on her husband rather then OM? Seems to me that would be the CHRISTIAN thing to do.
I can feel for her husband, from his point of view, what is there to win?
