Hey Whapu, no one has ever said that Piecing is easy did they. Many even say it is the hardest part of the journey. Why do you think that is?
I think it is because we focus so much on what we want that we don't really think about all the details that go along with our desires. We do not mentally prepare ourselves for the challenges that we are sure to face.
From what I have read, there is guilt, fear, trust issues, and self doubt. Let alone your issues..... Get it, remember that wifey poo still has lots of issues to deal with and your journey to be her support and friend does not end upon her recomiiting to your marriage.
Turning a broken marriage around sometimes means that even though our partner can walk on their own now, sometimes we still carry them part of the way just because we are strong enough to do so.
Hang in there buddy, I think you are doing better than you think you are.......
