hello everyone- sorry it's been so long since i last posted, i just really needed to get away from the boards and focus on my life for a little while. got an e-mail from SR about his current situation and decided to come back and see what's been going on.
my H and I are currently piecing or marriage back together, and for the first time in a very long time, i have hope. we are taking it one day at a time, and after two years of on and off separation, it has been hard. one thing i've learned throughout this process is what it truly means to love someone. it means taking it on the chin sometimes. it means biting your tongue. it means praying a lot. it means looking at the other person, with all of their flaws, and recognizing the same imperfections within yourself.
i read somewhere that people don't just quit good marriages. for those of you in limbo, even if it's been for a long time already, if you are not divorced, the game is definately not over. there is a reason you are both still in. it's just up to both of you to figure out what it is.
if you've not read the 5LL book, do it now, and at the first sign of hope from your spouse, have them read it if they will. it changed a lot for my H and i.
for those of you folks that have been on for a while and helped me when i was active on these boards, i sincerely hope you are well. drop me a line and let me know how you are if you are still lurking about. i'll be checking in until we can get SR's situation to a good place...:)
