During one of the conversations, she admitted that she had not seen OP since May, but that Counsellor had said it was alright to contact him. Maybe I was wrong, but I did do the 'I love you, but I'm not going to share - him or me' act (stupid I know).
Who is this councelor??? Five months since she's seen OM and the councelor thinks its a good idea to stoke the fire again??? Ditch the councelor!!!
