OUR SITCH.....pray for us

[Lkyguy]

she said we will wait till after the holidays & then draw up a seperation agreement...& we said there was & will be nobody else in our lives out of respect for each other till this thing is finalised BUT its obvious to me there first date was last tuesday when she didnt come home from work till midnight then couldnt stay away from him on wed when i was at therapy & went out for milk & came home at midnight again! thurs day she said her meeting would be running late then she was going out for coffee.......now she will be gone all day tomorrow.........I want to ask her if she is having an affair should I ???
or should I let it run its course & hope we have time left before sep/D?...can I DB while she is having this affair?
im so lost...I dont have a good block of time to read the book & with no sleep im just all over th place....forgive me