Ok, a cop showed up at my door and issued an Emergency Protective Order to protect OW, BF and her son.
I called the issuing police department and the officer was very nice. He said that H and OW went in together yesterday around 5:30 PM and said she was scared I was going to do something because of some v-mail messages.
H not only didn't "stay out of it" he went and gave all my personal info.
The officer said not to worry about it. He sees this all the time. IT is obvious what is going on. He said I showed more restraint then most people in my situation.
So I was advised to call on Monday and talk to the detective handling it. He said that if there is a charge at all, it will be a misdemeanor.
Can I get arrested for a misdemeanor? lwb?
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
She has a son? I am livid. OK, own that you do have an anger issue and you did go to their place. Stay away. Make no contact whatsoever. Let this one go. A good lawyer will advise you to drop it. You do not plan on having any contact with these folks anyways. the officer is correct. This is just a step in a routine that they have to follow through in case there is some bad mojo, but obviously there is not. Do not call, do not apoligize. Do not upset even your H. Also, I know this is going to be rough, do not blame your H. Let him stew in his own regret. The WAS will protect their transitional friends no matter how unhealthy it appears. Please do not take it as a personal strike against you right now. You are safe. You are fine.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
call a lawyer. you talked to one, didn't you? you need someone who can advise you and be in your corner should they use this for anything. I don't know if it would affect custody of your own children, and I am NOT trying to scare you, but honey, you have got to get a professional on your side.
do I think they will do anything? no. but I am absolutely disgusted/appalled that your h would be involved in anything like this.
omg.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
neph, I've been trying to get a hold of my friend in Ca and haven't been able to. let us know if you learn anything. if I do get a hold of my friend I'll ask what she thinks you should do. again, she normally handles a very different kind of law, so not sure what kind of help she could be, but will keep trying.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
I don't get it. Didn't you just go up to the door with your children in the car, knock and ask to speak to your husband? Is there a law against knocking on doors or asking to speak to someone? This is just trumped up stuff. The courts have more important things to think about. All the misdeanors my son faced only got him probation and a fine. Probably nothing will come of it if you just don't do anything new.
OK, I talked to an ex sheriff that one of my residents knows. He says that this is routine. They have to get my side of the story and finish the report. Technically, if OW really pushes it, they could slap me with misdemeanor charges and can, technically arrest me. However, no one that I have talked to thinks this will happen. I did not physically threaten her in any way. I did call her some nasty names and I did threaten to expose her for the homewrecking loser she is. Everyone is saying that they are not going to waste the court's time on this one.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
