On holiday we had a few R talks (nothing big, she is still in limbo land) and we were also intimate. If she doesn't love me, would we do that?
IMO this is significant. Sex for women is very different than sex for men. It's more of an emotional "giving." This is positive, Paul.
Originally Posted By: Pamar
Maybe I was wrong, but I did do the 'I love you, but I'm not going to share - him or me' act (stupid I know).
I do not see this as a negative. Sometimes, you gotta be a MAN. Women like it when their man is willing to fight for them. IMO (maybe others will disagree - but I feel strongly about this one) this was absolutely the right thing. As we say in the US, "Sound off like ya got a pair!!" And you did. Good job.
Originally Posted By: Pamar
I suppose I expected too much of the holiday (not saying it wasn't good) and should retreat a bit and let time take it's course. It's now 5 months since she has seen him, but I suppose the excitement and addiction is still there.
Yes, yes, back off, and you will hear a lot less "whatever."
Originally Posted By: Pamar
On a further scary note (and this will be a biiiiiiig 180), I am going to enter for a marathon next year (Edinburgh), so fingers crossed - will also enter W so we can run together (or apart).
Whooo hooo... I have done one marathon in my life. Prepare yourself for grueling training... and the feeling of absolute joy of accomplishment when you finish!!! Aim high and go for it!!
