Matilda I believe he is busy. You get periods where you have no access to modern convienences and then you get a day or two then back to another mission. He cannot hint or tell his schedule due to Operations Security.
Honestly there are people who read these posts that do not wish us well thus we have to be careful. I am sure it was nothing anyone here said.
I review the listings of our folks who are killed and he is not on it as of the last date reported. The government does not list wounded in action.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin