Can I tell you, though, that I lived through the day you are having today a few weeks ago, and it was rough, but I think every day since then has gotten better and better. I am accepting and healing and getting stronger. I know that this is not easy at all, but you are going to come out of this ok. Actually, probably much better than ok.
If I weren't feverish and feeling ill, I would offer to take you out for a beer or something this weekend. Maybe sometime soon.