Getting blasted and dancing with a chick, like I did last Saturday, is not something I would have done while still M.
That's clearly true, and also says a lot about your detaching.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
However, I still have a STRONG preference that she decide to put in the effort to recreate our M/R.
Hmmm. I think that's a good thing, though it's hard for me to tell these days. The door's certainly open to her, and devil dancing with one woman while wanting another sounds like a good balance.
Hey, did you ever meet up a second time with the woman you had coffee with?
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Is it a mark of intelligence or insanity to be able to simultaneously hold two contradictory thoughts in your head?
I think it's a sign that you understand that life is complex, and shows that you recognize nuance. Anything else is dogma: black and white is a lot simpler, but not attractive (to me).
