PM and Lissie, Yeah, I do feel happier these days. Lots of deadline stress from work, but still happier.
GD, dunno what's up with the random acts of kindness. Take them for what they're worth.
Had an email and brief phone exchange with W yesterday. Think positive. Details later, most likely Sunday/Monday at this point.
I feel like, in many ways, I've let go in that I'm prepared to move on. Getting blasted and dancing with a chick, like I did last Saturday, is not something I would have done while still M. However, I still have a STRONG preference that she decide to put in the effort to recreate our M/R.
Is it a mark of intelligence or insanity to be able to simultaneously hold two contradictory thoughts in your head?
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
Getting blasted and dancing with a chick, like I did last Saturday, is not something I would have done while still M.
That's clearly true, and also says a lot about your detaching.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
However, I still have a STRONG preference that she decide to put in the effort to recreate our M/R.
Hmmm. I think that's a good thing, though it's hard for me to tell these days. The door's certainly open to her, and devil dancing with one woman while wanting another sounds like a good balance.
Hey, did you ever meet up a second time with the woman you had coffee with?
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Is it a mark of intelligence or insanity to be able to simultaneously hold two contradictory thoughts in your head?
I think it's a sign that you understand that life is complex, and shows that you recognize nuance. Anything else is dogma: black and white is a lot simpler, but not attractive (to me).
