xh and I, uh, talk about a dozen times a day. Sometimes I actually forget that we're not together. How odd is that??
Anyway, quit trying to follow some silly rule you think you're supposed to...and go with what works. You want to work on your communication and M in the long run, right? Well, at some point, that means talking with your H again. After all, it doesn't go from completely apart to suddenly back together. It's usually more gradual than that.
So...my point is...it sounds like you've both cooled off some and are interacting better than you were before. Why not just go with flow, and see where it leads?
