The only thing is that I still Love her so much...
I gave her two choices, one to not reject me and actively participate and the other was to leave. She choose to leave. She is upset but not too emotional.
I am 47 and she 44 and we are engaged. My announcement came after 24 marriage counseling sessions together and over 1 year or strained sex (arguing and fusing). It is been terrible on both of us.
We have tried the ‘scheduled sex 1/week’, the me backing off and me being sort of a ‘take-charge’ kind of guy. The last one seemed to work better.
She lives with me and her two teenage girls. Her home is located two hours away and right now she will be moving back as soon as school is out. We have been together for 2 years.
The first 6 months was great as usual! The sex was all the time with no inhibitions whatsoever. We were all over each other. Today, I have heard every excuse known to man and she blames me for being too pushy and not giving her enough time. Who knows…
I actually think that I was the classic ‘Mr. Nice Guy’ and she needed a firmer hand. A guy that told her upfront what he expected. I have been soooo.. nice about this thing.
When you said she's moving back when "school is out," do you mean when school is out next spring?
So when you said "she chose to leave"... she's not exactly leaving for almost seven months??? And you two are continuing in this limbo for all that time?
How are you planning on getting through these months?
So AN...you put a time limit to things before, when you first came on this BB. What's different this time? This is a grown woman we are talking about...why in the world are you giving her so much time? Why are you continuing to drag this out?
