Thanks for reading my post. Good to see you here. My S only saw a counselor this Thursday and it was good for my H to see how he could be affecting our S in the long run. He thought he was doing well too and didn't realize how kids internalize and try to make things better. Because in the Cs office, the floodgates opened up. So he has only seen him once, but confirmed my suspicions about how he is feeling. ie, that it really IS bothering him. You might just try and see if your DDs would go once and then don't have to go again if they don't want. That's what I told my S. It made my son feel good to talk to someone else other than the people that are having the problems, us.
I was having an off day the day that I was being demanding about peeps reading my posts (sheepish look). I have since found that this is an excellent sounding board as you said and there are many good people in the same sitch.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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My S only saw a counselor this Thursday and it was good for my H to see how he could be affecting our S in the long run. He thought he was doing well too and didn't realize how kids internalize and try to make things better. Because in the Cs office, the floodgates opened up. So he has only seen him once, but confirmed my suspicions about how he is feeling. ie, that it really IS bothering him. You might just try and see if your DDs would go once and then don't have to go again if they don't want. That's what I told my S. It made my son feel good to talk to someone else other than the people that are having the problems, us.
I have since found that this is an excellent sounding board as you said and there are many good people in the same sitch.
