What do I do with her?

[Mike is Hurtin']

I've just started this, and it's hard. It's hard to "find" the things you like to do - alone.

Actually, every passing day makes it a bit easier to find things to do alone.

Something that has really helped me is http://www.meetup.com. I regularly do searches for things going on in my area, and I've met a lot of great people and had a lot of fun doing things rather spontaneously.

Being alone is something we choose for ourselves. There's a world of people to meet and things to do - we just have to look a little harder than we're used to. :-)

Good luck with it. Believe me - I know how hard this is.

-- Mike