I am so glad for you :-) it sounds like your (un)marriage is progressing wonderfully... i can only hope and pray that mine someday can recover that far,and further.

I'm jealous (and freakin horney.. gah, my hormones are nuts today. Actually, i'm not sure it's even hormones, it feels a bit different from that. i just keep thinking of cuddling with my wife naked.
All... Freakin... Day today )

(ok, snap out of it, Dom...)

Side comment: If he initiated... why not "reward him" in one way or another, rather than turn him down, just because it "doesnt work for YOU right now" ?

One of the best ways to encourage a man to initiate.. is to never turn him down when he does.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle