Hello... New Guy

[Michael Mc C]

You know, it's that kinda thing that I want to say,
"W, i'm not stupid, i know and looking back, i was stupid.... but i forgive you
and want to move on with this..."

oh_guy: if you do want to move on with this, and if you can forgive her, why do you feel compelled to tell her these things? in all honesty, regardless of your intentions, bringing this up can stir up a lot of emotions (IMO) that will be detrimental to your rebuilding efforts.