Not sure that was the best idea...but...whatever...it's been on my mind a lot lately, just been biting my tongue.
He also tried to initiate. Unfortunately...timing doesn't work biologically for me at the moment. Ah, well.
Other things I've noticed...
xh keeps saying "I'm different now" or "I don't do that anymore" when I mention I didn't do xyz because of how I thought he would react. Huh. It's not that I'm being vindictive or anything, but, after 7 years of knowing someone, you usually know what things will make the other person angry. Anyway, it's interesting that he keeps saying that. (And, actually isn't getting angry when I would have expected him to.)
He hasn't gone into crazy-mode in over a year. He's been on a once-a-year cycle. We've even gone through some major events, and he hasn't completely freaked out yet.
