She will say it is over after our talk and that is basically what I am telling her, am I not? Im not trying to set an expectation, either positive or negative. I think I am realizing that she wants the D and there is nothing I can do to stop that. I know that she could care less if I was on here or not.
You obviously don't want a D, and don't want it to be over, so why would you tell her that? Doesn't make any sense. If you read DB you'll remember that there is not a whole lot of certainty in what they say - Many of us have WAWs who change their needs from one day to the next. Last Friday my W told me that she never wanted anything to do with me, that she hated me and told me 'f-you'. Monday she told me that she loved me, she was proud of me for everything I had done recently and that I was a great father to our D. Just because it's wounded, you don't have to be the person to shoot it in the head.
Saying "I know you want the D..." sounds like a doormat. Tell her you need some time to adjust, you need some time to prepare and get yourself ready for the D. Don't encourage it, but don't stall it.
