Well Monday is my birthday and two years ago it was the best birthday and weekend of my life courtesy of my wife. So I'm trying to only have good and happy memories right now and not feel bittersweet about it. All my friends here now know about it and are trying to help me out too. Gotta love good friends!
My wife has been rather distant the last two days. I suspect it has something to do with her processing right now. Sunday we had a bit of a tiff. In it we talked about speaking love languages. She said she didn't feel like I had been showing love via LLs the last couple of years when we lived in London, especially after my special 40th b-day two years ago. So I pointed out how I really picked up on the acts of service. She reluctantly admitted I was doing the things she has said I needed to do. So her getting distant is typical of her reaction when she knows I am right.
So for now, I'll give her some space. But I know what you mean, I too do miss holding and cuddling with my wife!!
Last edited by catfan; 11/02/0706:34 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
