Well, I bought the book. GEEEZE what a bummer. I noticed many things in there similar to my situation... even her shaving her pubic hair... GOD... it pisses me off, makes me sad, makes me think this is never going to work...all that.
I'm glad I started to read it... but damn, it was such an eye opener. I didn't see very much hope in there other than preparing yourself for separation, which usually ends in divorce. But it did make me understand what my W is going through, and although difficult, I understand it a bit more.
Are we on here hoping for the best? Are we here because we're afraid of losing that person?? I don't want my children to go through hell, because of my W and my problems.
We appear civil and okay in front of the kids... it's just a weird thing.
I get emails from her during the day, making plans. I'm just not convinced the affair is over. But that may be just me feeling the pain... but I'm just so f'n scared and nervous to make the next move... but I KNOW I need to keep my head up, smile on and look like I'm ready to take whatever comes... it's just the kids.... they don't deserve this... they just don't.
Again, many thanks and hoping everyone finds peace and comfort sometime soon.
