Look at this as an information gathering mission, you are going to find out what she wants and expects. (at this moment)
Like so many have stated, this isn't the time or place for "us" because there isn't any now.
Choose what's important and only fight the battles necessary, if any. Remember this is a mediation, a chance to feel each other out for the possibility of an amicable solution to a ever changing course of events.
Remember life here is finite but the possibilities are infinite.
How's that for a paradox?
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