I guess for the last year and some months I have been holding out hope that something would turn for the better, but she has been with someone since the divorce and doesnt look to be turning back. I feel sometimes she wishes things were different but to much has happened and that is the easier road to go. I will probably always hold out some hope that things could be different but it is time for me to travel another path. I got the divorce busting book but know where is there a situation like mine so I wish everyone luck and hope you all find what you are looking for.