okay so I have been pondering this for a while...I am thinking about telling my W that I have been a member of site after we have our talk. Do you think that is a bad idea? I see it this way, after our talk we are over so it doesnt really matter right?
Alright Buddy, I'm going to take the gloves off. You reek of desperation. Don't fool yourself into thinking she doesn't either. That is not attractive. Nothing you are doing is attractive. I see two options for you. 1)You are going to blow everything to hell by trying to slice the bread your own way or 2)you can begin to look at this logically rather than emotionally and get yourself together. Now choose.