W had cooked and offered me dinner. She actually asked me how my webinar went yesterday. Talked for a bit. Asked her about her day. She had a new pair of jeans, complemented her that her buttocks looked nice in them (not my exact words )
That all sounds pretty positive, Heim! How did W respond to A) you asking about her day, and B) your compliment about her looking good in them jeans?
Your W always does surprise me with her RAKs (random acts of kindness) -- just make sure to not get overly excited when they occur, and just respond kindly and friendly in moderation.
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Chitchatted and joked a bit. She actually stopped and showed me some knee high socks (a recent thing of hers -- could have become a thing of mine, poop) that were Halloween themed -- first time she's done that in a while. I mean, going out of her way to show me something she bought for herself.
Again, good stuff. Like I said before though, don't try to read into things too much -- just monitor, take stock, etc, and go about you merry way. Show her happiness, confidence, serenity, etc, no matter what is thrown your way (just like I did when W left me alone in the living room with her BF yesterday). Letting go is a powerful thing and gives most of us the best chance at meeting any and/or all of our goals.
