okay so I have been pondering this for a while...I am thinking about telling my W that I have been a member of site after we have our talk. Do you think that is a bad idea? I see it this way, after our talk we are over so it doesnt really matter right?
Who said you are over after you talk? Don't set an expectation, either that something positive will happen, or that it's the end of everything.
She probably couldn't care less if you are spending time here, or if you go out and buy a bookstore full of self-help books related to relationships or marriage.
Follow the DB rules - They work. I can post the list again if you like.
