I'm going to up the flirting factor---maybe I'll tell him about this very sexy podcast I've been listening to, ask him about that "sex in the woods" book he left lying around after the bomb (a suggestion from my DBing coach, of all people!), etc. I'm also occasionally letting H see me check my phone for texts (without being able to see them) in a Homer-esque move.
I'm going to consciously open up more to him emotionally, and I'm going to initiate those occasional conversations (maybe not DBing, but what feels right here).
This all sounds great, puddle! And really, whether or not some of your strategies sound like DBing or not, they are good strategies simply because they are attempts at exploring new and different tunnels in hopes of finding bits and pieces of the ever-ellusive cheese. Always monitor the results, take stock, etc, and decide whether or not such strategies are working for you, against you, or maintaining the current state your R/M is in. The only wrong button is the one you keep pushing to no avail. Remember that DR says to give strategies at least a few weeks of monitoring before deciding if they're working or not. It may take a while for H to respond favorably (for whatever reason).
You sound great! Oh, and I'm glad you are looking "so good"! All the better for your "physical touch" H to gawk at and fantasize about!
All the better for your "physical touch" H to gawk at and fantasize about!