did you get your wife to read it? if so, what was her response? let me know if you think it's worth the $. I'm so confused right now, and i feel like i'm looking for every little piece of information that will help.
I haven't read the book, so I can't comment on it. But I will say that your questions make me wonder, are you still approaching your relationship in terms of "fixing" your wife's unhappiness? If you are, I would recommend that you let that go - it just doesn't work that way.
Instead, focus on yourself - what can you do to be happier, stronger, healthier, and more engaged in your life APART from your marriage? I know this seems counter-intuitive, but believe me, when people tell you to Get A Life and work on your PMA - that's exactly what you need to do.
Rob
P.S. Where in OH are you?
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