She is the one missing out on you and your life. Try and act "as if" and keep her quessing.
Im sorry that she acted that way, and I just can't stomach the fact that the kids are going over to the om house.. that is just not right. She obviously doesn't see what damage she is really doing to the kids, or she just doesn't care.
Let her be concerned that you are moving on... Maybe its the wake up call she needs.
((hugs))
Tal
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