Need Help/ Suggestions - Part 2

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We had it out again yesterday and i called attention to her going out and living a life without me. I also asked why she is still in this realtionship, to which she pointed to our son.

I know there are things going on behind my back and they are going to be addressed. even through all of this I want to keep my family intact. But the question is, is it fair to our son and myself to have a W/M going out on her own and living a life without either one of us? What example does that set for our son and if this continues down this path, what type of home will he be living in?