I haven't felt like I've had a lot to say recently, however, these comments this morning ring true. I also have chosen to sit back and watch to see how things progress. During a conversation I had with a friend lately he made the point that, "yes, change is good, but only make the changes that improve you and not just a change to make a change". So I've looked hard at the changes and only pursue those that are really needed. Becoming someone you don't want to be doesn't help anyone.
In a way I have also seen that I will make the changes I feel are right, then let W catch on/up or else let her "deal with it". Perhaps you could say in a way I have dropped the rope. Sorry to have hijacked your thread, but the thoughts your comments induced seem to need to be posted here. Stay strong AUD. You have a strong sense of what the goal is, how you will get there is up to you. Follow your promptings.
