He's got MLC accompanied by empty nest -- she "can't live without him" and got 3 kids -- feels needed, how can I compete with that? She's a druggie (was?) and not working, and he feels like a knight in shining armor I bet. I'm more independant and strong (and he reminds me how strong I am, how he didn't think he could handle everything I'm dealing with right now). It seems he feels unneeded at home--how do I change that? I'm lost. I have no choice it seems, yet this is not my dream.
H is OTR driver - 48 Me 49 married 24yrs 2 sons, 22/20 H going thru MLC
