new here. Feel like dying

[Dom R]

Laddbug:

I see a bunch of things "missing" from your post.


-why did he move out the first time?
-why did he move out the second time?

-why cant you control your temper?

-why do you think things will be any different between you, if he moves back in?


The "most important" question is the last one. I think the prior ones may help you think about your answer to the last question.

Right now, though, I get the feeling that you dont really know how things would be any different if he moved back. Which means... it would not be a good idea if he moved back right now.

Common words of wisdom around here:
You cant control your spouse. you can only control YOU and YOUR actions.

Given that: if you could choose what to change about yourself,and you made it happen... what would you choose to change, and how do you think that might affect your relationship with your husband?