I don't post much anymore, but was checking the site today and your subject line caught my eye. I really admire your post and how very much you seem to TRULY understand and respect your W needs. Thoughts and feelings like yours is not something I see all that often on the message board and it's a nice change from anger and resentment that most LBS feel. The sitch is difficult enough and it sounds like you are able to see it from both sides. If only others could be as mature and honest as you, even when the truth hurts you so deeply. One more thing, I'm sure your wife had the connection in the beginning, after all you got married. Keeping taking care of yourself!
M 41 H 42 M'd 21 yrs S19; D15 Bomb dropped 10/2006
