First, Sorry you are here, but this board is full of wonderful people and they will help you best they can.

Im not on every day anymore, just check in every couple of days to see how everyone is, so If I don't respond right away, I will get to it. Trying to work out my own issues.

You are doing great, you really are. I would not pursue at all, this will only drive them further away. As for her saying it is over, I would just try not to dwell on it. and dont' snoop as you know it will cause more heartache..

This will be one of the most hardest things you have to do, detach. As mark said, don't offer any details if you are going out. Continue to gal... I know it feels like you are going crazy, but we are all here with you.

Also don't worry about screwing anything up. Everyone makes mistakes along the road to recovery, nothing is perfect and you will have some back slides now and then, the important thing is, is that you work on yourself and doing what makes you and your children happy, the rest will come.

Take care~

Tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.