I really thought we had a good marriage. We liked the same stuff... we like to travel, we have three great kids... we don't argue about how we're raising them... we like to go out with friends together... it's just so strange. sooo f'in bizarre.
Guy, Take a look at the website http://www.womensinfidelity.com. I downloaded the online books that are offered there. They really seem to describe my W's situation / feelings perfectly. Helping me understand the why, now I just need to work on the how to fix.