mwel, It's okay to say that you don't want the marriage to end. It's okay to say that things would be different. IF you haven't said so before. She should hear at least once that you don't want to give up. After that, it just pushes her away.
Is what I have above, the part about making her happy and signing the papers doing that or should I say something else along with it?
Originally Posted By: Just_Me
You definitely should tell her that your paying off bills with the money in the joint account, you intend to close it once your all set up in the new account, and would appreciate it if she didn't use it.
I did, I sent her an email asking her not to use that acct and if she was going to put money back in it.
Brit, No, I do not use checks and therefor I do not have a check book. I am waiting to pay this months rent from our joint acct and then from there on, Im going to pay from my acct.
