Not sure anyone is still reading my ramblings on...

But I am wondering about something & would love some insight.
I moved out of our home 4 months ago. H stayed in the home & put it up for sale. In the last few days, we got an offer & have accepted it, so our home is selling. This is both good and sad at the same time... \:\(

One evening last week, H was talking about it and started crying. I think he is having a hard time dealing with the idea of moving. I'm scared, though, that once he finds a place and gets moved there that he will feel excited about it & that he'll interpret his feelings of excitement to mean he should leave me for good. I know when I moved I sortof felt like that, so I am worried.

Any advice is appreciated, he moves late Nov. and I know if he's excited it will be hard for me (I experience it as further rejection, and worry he will meet someone else b/c of the area he's moving to has lots of single people our age).


Me: 32, H: 32
Together: 11, M: 8, Kids: 0
Separated: 6/15/07
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