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Funny.. she basically ignored me the whole time. I told her she looked very nice. Asked how her day was.. you know all the nice "friend" stuff.


That's exactly what mine did while we were trick or treating. Thankfully the kids didn't notice. God that sucked.

I agree that you shouldn't make it easier to want the D, but I think that telling her no in a nice way and you don't know who you are taking is good. I think it's a greener grass over here point.

I'm also think it's good that she's concerned you're moving on.

I'm glad your in-laws are against what she is doing. My STBXW says the in-laws are supportive of her decision, but I have no ideaif that's true or what she is telling them, she asked them not to contact me. I doubt they're getting the real story.


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