Thanks Heim!

I have been thinking about what Sandi said, and thinking back over our relationship, we got together when we were about 21, he had a relationship with a girl who had sort of been my friend and that how we met, we didn't get together until well after they had broken up, she wanted babies and he ran for the hills!!
We were young, but didn't marry until we were 25 so had been together sometime.
But now what I am wondering is because I showed him the attention is that why he married me? Because he maybe thought no one else would, and so settled for me?
I also wonder for all of our marriage did no other women show intrest?
Is it now because he is ripe for it and these other women can sense it so go in for the kill now?
Not sure what the answers are to this?


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda