This sounds great to me. It seems you are at peace with the D if it happens. But you are not pushing for it. This is DBing dude. The ball is in her court now she needs to make the choice. And you have detached enough that you know she needs to work on getting back with you. I have been at this for almost a year now and I wish I was in your place. Enjoy this moment of calm.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
