Did you ever hear the best time to sell a car is when you don't need to sell it? You have all of the time in the world. You can ask anything you want for it. Well if you are ready for this then you also have all the time in the world. Work on yourself. "Build it and they will come". That is pretty much where I am. Build you life. Build on your attitude.
Husband, Still struggling with this. I can say that I'm done, but I don't think that I could be the one to file the paperwork at this point. In our discussion earlier this week I told her that she needed to get the ball rolling, and I had thought that it would be this week, but she still hasn't mentioned anything about talking to her lawyer again yet.
We've been sleeping in the same bed up to this point, but two nights ago, I shifted to the futon. We had had a bit of an arguement that night, so I think she expected that. Last night after I got ready for bed I started walking out of our BR and she seemed surprised that I was going to the futon again.
Also, earlier in the evening after we had dinner, W went into the bathroom for quite a while. Not that I always monitor her bathroom habits, but it looked like she had been crying when she came out. I don't like reading into things, but I'm wondering if my detachment is having some effect.
Having said that, even if she does start coming around, I don't know that I would take her back so quickly at this point. Once bitten, twice shy - twice bitten?? She'd have to work her butt off to convince me.
