Now I've done it...again #5

[mkultra]

Hey Guapa,
I am sorry you feel defeated. Tomorrow is another day. What did you do for Halloween? I know how you feel but sometimes it feels liberarting to let go. Your H sounds like he feels like an ineffectual parent. He probably feels a lot more control in his classroom, maybe not, I do not know him. I know my H feels pretty detached from my liitle one and closer to my daughter. She is perfect and respectful, an angel in his eyes, but my son is wild and does not seem to follow any discipline. This just makes my H angrier and I have to intercede and that makes him angrier too. His loss right. You will be fine. And you can let go of that intact myth. Sure it is ideal but you need to strive for what makes you happy. I think there is still th epossibility thatyour H can wake up, grow up, and make this family his new project. This OW sitch will not make him happy. It is insane. But for some reason they feel safer in those insane places because it reflects their insanity. I know it. My H is in LaLa Land too. They could be friggin room mates, the dead beats. remind me again why we are so loyal??? oh yeah.