Hello I am kidsaver...I was a regular on this site beginning in July of 2006 for about 10 months...my seperation lasted 11 months..the D was final in June of 2007...Well guess what my X approached me about reconciliation a few weeks ago...never really gave up and continued to Dbust all though not with the same intensity...but I did do my best to maintain a good relationship with the X and be her friend through it all especially for the kids sake...things are going wonderfully and we still have some work to do....we are trying to be smart about it....but she wants to come home and we are talking about re-marriage down the road. We are both happy....learned alot about what went wrong in our marriage and she has become the wonderful person I married 14 years ago again....Oh I guess I could elaborate alot but I remember all the frustration and despair that was bantered about on this site. So just thought I would tell everyone its not always over. I only see a couple of screen names I remember and I guess I might move over to the Divorce but not Done forum.
