Thanks Lissie, you are right. I just spoke with Susie (DB coach) and she agreed I was putting pressure on him with the 'you have to pay for my dinner' tactic...not that what I said wasn't totally TRUE and that I do deserve for him to do that, but right now things are too critical and weak to put pressure on him.
sigh. this is going to be harder than i thought.
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