Hi, new here and my H is in MLC at 32.

[Lissie]

H just told me he feels "too responsible" for my feelings

Sweetie, I would really listen to this.

I know we hear that what comes out of the mouth of these Mlcers are all lies.

But sometimes I think they speak the truth, and this sounds like one of those times.

I think more of NC is a good thing, for you.

You can work out things that are troubling you.

You can try to get back that TXbutterfly that got lost in the marriage.

I know it is scary, and you are scare of Losing him more.

But the truth is that he has so much work to do on himself, why not give him that space, and while he is spacing in his space, you are becoming whole again