Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

Ok So...we went to my son's counseling and it went good for my son. He got to open up and tell his feelings to the counselor about what is happening between us. I think it was a real eye opener for my H on how it will affect our son. The C said no matter what we do it is always traumatic for the children and they always end up blaming themselves somehow. As I mentioned before my S ADORES his father, and my son is one of the sensitive kids, so for him to leave would be traumatic... Not that I want to use this to turn my marriage around, but I hope it opened his eyes some. Then when we got out of the office, my H and I went our separate ways, but before we left said "So do you think we should talk about this at home?" I bit my tongue(which is slowly becoming a bloody stump, LOL) and I said "Do you?" He said "Yes, I think we should". So who knows what that will be about...but I'm sure I will be back here posting about it...